Your opinion is very important to this topic. I’m blown away at the number of educated women dating prison men. Make no mistake, everyone should be given a second chance; but when your dealing with
repeated offenders, theirs something mentally wrong. I personally think that we really need to redefine what it means to be educated. To simply hold a degree does not grant you the right to be called educated; whatever happen to common sense.

I’m totally confused with the amount of women who are dating prison men. Is it really not that many men too go around. And the worst part is that these women are meeting these men while their incarcerated doing hard time. And their being loyal/faithful until they get release . Your basically meeting a complete stranger for the first time that will be released in your custody , around your children . So my question to you is , how educated are these women and do we really need to redefine what it means to be educated.

Arguing all the time about someone else, smelling my clothes going through my phone looking for someone else. Checking on me at work calling my mother phone cursing her out. Blaming her for the reason our relationship is going through stages of blaming me for everything. But I ask you everyday why are you still with me. Can’t use the bathroom without you asking me what am I doing, when I tell you I’m taking a sh*t you blame me for that too. I gave up all my friends because you blame everything on them too. Always saying birds of a feather flock together. In the end, it was you who I should’ve blame for everything because you were the one messing with someone else. Begging me stalking me for a piece of my time , I let you change my life and now I’m the one blaming you for hurting me. This is my good bye, I will always throw it up in your face. So, Let’s play the blame game, I love you, Let’s play the blame game, I hate you more than before!

It came to my attention that alcohol beverages can work miracles. Only to find out the next morning that your lying next to Freddie Cougar and you did not use any protection. This is happening everyday, only to here those dreadful words ” I’m keeping it” or to have a stalker. I now understand why their are so many baby mothers, their morals prevented them from getting an abortion but it did not stop them from opening up on the first night.

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You are perfectly content with being single. You would rather risks being alone than give up your freedoms of being single. This is the reason you cannot find that person. You are pretending to want someone in your life and Everytime you meet a person you find some fault to push them away. Let’s not deny it, I just want you to stop pretending that you are interested in giving up your freedoms of the single life.

Why do we try to keep things a secret that will eventually come to light. It happens all the time, we try to cover a lie that leads into another lie and another which is hard to keep track off. We often forget the lies that were told. It’s better to reveal the truth and be truthful starting a relationship. Imagin the headache and arguments that will later procede the lies that are told. This should be your motivation to be honest with the one you are willing to start a relationship with. Often, to many people do not take the time to get to know their partners. Which later results in lieing about things that can be revealed.

Honey, if your truly tired of the same men then you need to ask yourself ” What do I need to change.” You’ll be amazed at the results you’re going to receive. All it takes is a little change in your environment, in your conversations, in the way you project your tone. Changing your environment will give you a confident boost. You will become a lot happier and very enthusiastic about finding that special one.

 Also, you must know, men are going to be men no matter where you go. The change of environment is just to boost your confidence. In order to conquer your opponent , you must first study your enemy. Women fail at this subject all the time. Conversations is very important, you may not know but men have certain keywords that signals a red flag for many women.

What do you mean you may ask. For example, if a man sees a pretty girl in Starbucks, they begin to have a wonderful conversation , the man then says ” would you like to buy me a coffee.” This is where many women fail, this is the test to see what type of woman you are. The moment she says ” I don’t by men coffee,” is the moment that flag is waived.” It’s not that he really want you to buy him a coffee, he’s testing the person you are.

What can a man decipher from that statement. Let’s see, he can tell that you expect a man to do certain things which can be controlling, he can tell that you’ve been in a bad relationship and who wants damage good. He can also tell that your not a generous person. All men have red flag keywords, just ask any man. Just think deep about some of your pass experience with men. What did you say that resulted in a awful date. Men are not that hard to figure out, some women don’t take the time to study their mate.

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How is this possible one might ask, how is that nice guys are the one’s to finish last. Throughout all the domestic violence abuse and verbal abuse that women experience. Having your man cheat on you and get other women pregnant ; nice guys are still the ones to finish last? Continue reading »

Women often compare themselves to men, but in the public eye they are viewed differently. Is it men or women that are being unfaithful in today’s world. I’m not sure what gender is committing the most cheating. Women say ” all men are dogs and they are easily seduced.” Men say ” women are very sneaky and they often do not get caught.” This is a topic I’ll let my viewers answer. So, WHO ARE THE BIGGEST CHEATERS?

You often here the word loyalty , theirs no loyalty, especially spoken in the black community . Do these men  actually understand the definition of loyalty ? How can I trust you to be a man of your word, when I know that your cheating on your spouse. Continue reading »

According to so many single people, marriage is becoming a thing of the past. You have to be very careful where you’re receiving your information from. Those that believe marriage is becoming a thing of the past is either single or divorce. Continue reading »